Why I Don’t Like Describing Myself As A Blogger

When I first opened my laptop and started writing about lipstick back in 2010, I could never have imagined how this blogging journey would evolve. It started as very much a creative outlet, a way to fill the evenings and a method of connecting with others that shared similar passions for all things beauty, but it progressed into so much more. Over the last seven years I’ve developed a passion for writing that had always been lingering under the surface, photography skills that I never knew were there and an innate ability to understand human connection. My life has changed considerably since I first pressed publish; alongside the growth of a new digital industry I’ve discovered new skills, passions and interests that have allowed me to carve a rather unique and diverse career for myself that means I’m fully in control of my working week. Although blogging takes up the majority of my time Monday-to-Friday, I’m often loathe to describe myself as a blogger; in fact, I often take five minutes to respond to the question ‘what do you do for a living’ because I’ve become so averse to using the words ‘I’m a blogger’. Bear with me, because here’s why…


Although blogging now appears to be as rife and mainstream as having a Facebook account, it’s still relatively niche and can be described as ‘a slow burner’ outside of our little online bubble. Generally speaking, unless you work in the industry there’s a severe lack of understanding what a blog is and what a blogger does. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve tried to turn a blank stare into a look of understanding, but describing yourself as a blogger often just brings about more questions that you can answer within a reasonable amount of time! I admit to having changed my response depending who I’m talking to, and I’m known to describe myself as anything from a beauty and social media expert to a digital journalist or brand consultant; sometimes I just can’t deal with the look of confusion that greets me when I say ‘I’m a blogger’, no matter how proud I am of what I’ve achieved under that pseudonym.


One of the most frustrating things about admitting you’re a blogger is the instant questions about how you make a living. I get it, I really do; it’s hard at face value to maybe understand how writing about lipstick can earn you a decent income, but having these awkward conversations is never fun. I feel like I’m justifying my existence and letting people in to my inner most secrets, just because there’s a lack of understanding as to the value we can bring. You’d never ask a lawyer or a journalist how they make money (or how much – but that’s a whole other blog post!) but for some reason it’s totally acceptable if you make your living online.


Saying ‘I’m a blogger’ simply doesn’t cover the huge amount of skill involved in running an online presence. As a blogger we take on numerous roles, including: copywriter, editor, photographer, social media manager, IT support, brand manager, industry expert, model, accountant, negotiator and so much more. It’s not just about being able to write a decent blog post or take a decent photo, but managing a complete online presence and ensuring as many people discover you as possible. You have to become an expert in digital media and working with brands, teach yourself how to run accounts and understand contracts – yet the majority of these skills are overlooked. As someone who has a degree, worked in brand development and management for a decade, and who has spent the last seven years building up two businesses, ‘a blogger’ often doesn’t really cover it for me.


If your only exposure to the world of blogging was through traditional print media, you’d be forgiven for thinking we’re all vacuous young girls who would sell their soul for the latest Rimmel lipgloss. You’d also be forgiven for thinking we only care about making millions of pounds off vunerable teenagers, that we all buy our way to the top via a fake few thousand insta followers, or that we’d fake a life threatening illness to sell books. It’s safe to say the general opinion represented in the press isn’t a good one – and I really wish they’d celebrate the great achievements or campaigns for change bloggers are involved in, and how some young men and women are launching their own businesses before most have even finished school. The blogging industry really is amazing, and it’s changed the way we share and consume information forever; we just need to represent it more fairly and ensure it becomes a respected career choice, rather than it being about on par with reality TV stars.


Although the majority of my working week is spent writing, editing and taking photos, it also involves a huge amount of non-blogging too. I run my own blogger network, Thirty Plus, which has boasts over 800 bloggers and has its own annual awards; I work as a brand consultant to help them understand the industry, develop new products and refine their marketing efforts; I educate brands and businesses on how to use social media and work with influencers; I act as an industry expert, providing both insight and opinion on the future of the beauty market via written quotes and public speaking engagements; I manage my podcast Made Online, sharing inspirational stories from across the internet. I wear a lot of hats and have a lot of knowledge, but often I feel like that’s not represented without me explaining in depth what I actually do. Bloggers are very often so much more than just bloggers.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m so proud to be part of an industry that evolves every day and has allowed me to carve a very specific career path – but the lack of understanding and respect for what we do causes all number of issues. Sometimes saying ‘I’m a blogger’ doesn’t represent the huge amount of time, effort, skill and money that goes into our sites, or the other skills or income streams we develop. Here’s hoping that 2018 brings with it more understanding (and positive press!) for people to get to grips with what we do every day. Because bloggers are awesome in so many more ways than you know.

If you’re a blogger, how do you describe your hobby or career? Do you think blogging should be taken more seriously, and that the media should celebrate the great achievements rather than focusing on the newsworthy negatives? How can we help to educate and inform people about the world of blogging?

By the way, how awesome is this Harry Potter mug? I picked it up in Primark for £6.00!


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  1. Maiyabellexo
    November 20, 2017 / 8:20 pm

    I know exactly what you mean! There's been so many times when someone has asked me what I do and when I answered 'I'm a blogger', they just looked at me like I'm talking gibberish! xMaiya | http://www.maiyabellexo.co.uk

    • Hayley Hall
      November 22, 2017 / 8:14 am

      Sometimes I feel like it's saying you're a circus performer or something!

  2. Erin Russell
    November 20, 2017 / 8:59 pm

    I love the mug! So jelly our primark sucks! I hate saying "I'm a blogger" Simply because here in Scotland it isn't common, and the automatic assumption is that I cry into my laptop in a "dear diary" type of situation – sigh! Or the assumption you want to be Zoella, I just dislike it! But its part of the package! 🙂 Erin || MakeErinOver

    • Hayley Hall
      November 22, 2017 / 8:15 am

      Yeah I hate the associations with Zoella, as though she's the only blogger out there and there's no other way to blog. Le sigh!

  3. Ariadna Morell
    November 20, 2017 / 10:51 pm

    It does really bother me when people say "blogging is so easy" – it requires so much time and effort! xAriadna || RAWR BOWS

    • Hayley Hall
      November 22, 2017 / 8:24 am

      It really does – more than anyone would ever know!

  4. Vivian Yuen
    November 21, 2017 / 2:28 am

    I think we're on our way to understanding more about the blogging industry and the time and effort people put into developing their own brand or supporting other brands. Hopefully 2018 brings on more and more understanding, respect and appreciation for what you do! Vivian | LIVE IN LOVEIG | @viviyunn_~

    • Hayley Hall
      November 22, 2017 / 8:25 am

      Here's hoping! It has got better, but I still feel like the most dismissed person in the room at certain events and work situations – which is a real shame.

  5. Victoria's VickyWeek
    November 21, 2017 / 7:35 am

    Hey,I love how you put this post! It's so true! I do blogging as a side project, it's not my job, but it's not a hobby either because I put a lot of time and effort in it, plus I do not treat it as a hobby – it's something that I do as a work I do outside of work in a sort 🙂 The bad thing about blogging is that in smaller countries (like Bulgaria, where I'm from) being a blogger isn't a "thing", you can't make a living out of it because brand branches still don't get it and think that sending a product is more than enough for a blogger to write about them… I hope this changes because even in smaller countries there are some really amazing content being made!xoxo,Victoriahttp://vickyweek.com/index.php/en/

    • Hayley Hall
      November 22, 2017 / 8:26 am

      There's so much great content out there and some real influence over decisions, so I hope countries like yours catches up and appreciates the time / effort / skill that goes into writing a blog.

  6. Pam Scalfi
    November 21, 2017 / 3:22 pm

    That's just the thing, if I don't call myself a blogger what do I call myself? Digital creator? Digital Influencer? I don't honestly don't know, especially when I do this part-time. I also don't like calling myself a blogger but it's the name I'm stuck for now with.Pam xo/ Pam Scalfi♥

    • Hayley Hall
      November 22, 2017 / 8:27 am

      Yeah, we need new names! Influencer is a bit meh and doesn't encompass all the skill – hence the move towards being a 'slashie' i think!

  7. Merkitty Blog
    November 21, 2017 / 5:42 pm

    I don't really tell anyone I blog. I only recently confessed to my sister about it, like it was some dirty secret. I guess right now I wouldn't get questions about money even if I did mention it because I don't make anything from my blog.. the only things I get are free products now and then. It does seem really weird now that you've said about people asking how you make money though.. it's so true, you wouldn't ask any other profession. It's rude really, but I guess people are just fascinated because they think of blogging as easy.. which it isn't.

    • Hayley Hall
      November 22, 2017 / 8:29 am

      There's a fascination, yes, which I totally get – but it's just the blatant questions right away from complete strangers I don't like!

  8. BritishBeautyBlogger
    November 22, 2017 / 1:04 pm

    I just say that I run a website if it's someone outside the industry and then quickly ask them what they do to change the subject! It's just not worth trying to explain all that it entails.. I was recognised by a store assistant the other day while I was shopping with a (non industry) friend and she literally couldn't believe it… you just can't really explain it to 'outsiders'!!

  9. BeautybytheBunny
    November 27, 2017 / 10:33 am

    I’m actually proud to call myself a blogger. Yes it covers many things but I don’t expect anyone to feel the need to explain every single aspect of their job. The negativity and confusion over what bloggers do will lessen and we should be proud of what we do. Saying you don’t like calling yourself a blogger just helps add to the impression that we shouldn’t be proud and that we don’t have skills. Fly your blogger flag high and be loud and proud.

  10. Vicki
    November 29, 2017 / 8:42 am

    I do get funny looks as a late 40s blogger, like it’s a young girls game. I’m a part timer and still tiny but I have a good niche and hope to continue working on that and getting the word out. I also loathe the word “influencer” – it’s really obnoxious!

  11. Rosa Fairfield
    November 30, 2017 / 11:46 am

    I totally agree. I hate how people are always constantly asking me how much I earn. I guess I also find it difficult calling myself a blogger because it's not the only thing I do online because I also have a YouTube account & other social media platforms.http://ohduckydarling.com

  12. Mr. Wharff
    December 16, 2017 / 12:51 pm

    I get embarrassed when describing my hobby as a ‘blogger’ but the most annoying thing is when people ask me do I make money from it, that answer is, no not at all and then wonder why I spend time producing content for free.

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