#LetsTalkAboutIt: Lady Gardens. To Shave Or Not To Shave, That Is The Question!

The social, cultural and historical influences that affect the choice of personal grooming techniques are vast. Deciding whether or not to opt for a little trim, embrace the full bush or wax it off entirely (a la Sex and the City) is all down to personal preference, but our obsession with pubic hair (or lack of it) is nothing new. Statues from ancient Egypt and Greece reflected the ideal of the time of a hairless, feminine body - the presence of pubic hair on women was considered to be ‘uncivilized’ and something only fashioned by the lower classes. Women in Ancient Middle Eastern and African cultures also underwent various forms of pubic hair removal - including shaving and plucking, ouch - and historians note that while pubic hair removal was not widely practiced during the Middle Ages, some European women removed pubic hair to avoid body lice; interestingly it was more of a functional task than one driven by sexual connotations or fashion. So where does our current obsession with all things hairy come from, and how has a whole industry been born of a touch of fluff that’s essentially there to protect us from friction during rumpy-pumpy?

In the early part of the Twentieth Century, with the introduction of arm and leg baring fashions, women started to widely shave their limbs and underarm areas. It was only when Gillette marketed the first razor for women in 1915, with the rather controversial message that body hair was ‘unsightly’ and needed to be removed, that habits formed centuries earlier started to become mainstream once again. When the first bikini swimsuit was launched in 1946, women were now faced with the dilemma of removing hair from around their nether regions which may be exposed by the new high legged fashions. Skip forward to the 80’s and 90’s, and swimsuit trends necessitated the removal of most pubic hair - can you imagine the iconic image of Pamela Anderson in her red swimsuit with fur popping out of the side? This filtered down to the masses and saw an increasing abundance of body hair removal products and services, which in turn led to a gradual cultural acceptance of the practice of pubic hair removal. In most recent years the porn industry has perpetuated the image of a sexually attractive woman being one sans hair (for many young men and women this image is now considered to be the norm,) which only fuels both our own and the media’s obsession further. 

It’s reported that upwards of 90% of US woman admitted to having at least partially removed their pubic hair during the last month, but shockingly it's reported that roughly 60% of women experience health concerns due to shaving; furthermore, up to 75% experience irritation after reaching for their razor - and I'm not just talking legs. Although it’s completely a personal choice, it’s important to understand the implications of removing your pubes both in the short and long term, as well as how to ensure you’re looking after your lady bits in the most effective way. There’s no right or wrong way, but whatever you choose make sure you’re informed. Since the abundance of hair removal, it’s reported that cases of pubic lice have dramatically decreased; if there’s nothing for them to hang on to there’s no lice at the inn! However, the tiny abrasions caused by shaving and waxing can not only host infections, but transmit them too. Cases of sexually transmitted infections have increased not only because of modern ‘promiscuity’, increased sexual partners and lack of contraception, but because these microscopic tears in the skin can encourage the growth of bugs. 

Our vaginas (both inside and out) are incredibly sensitive, especially to environmental change, so we need to ensure we’re using the most appropriate and hygienic tools at our disposal. Razors should theoretically be changed every time they’re used, but even once a week is good practice if you’re regularly trimming your bush; waxes should be free from unnecessary fragrance, as soothing as possible, and used at the correct temperature - nobody wants a burnt badger. If you’re frequently suffering from infections or irritations, it’s worth seeking the advice of a professional who will know the best way to achieve the look you’re after, but with minimal discomfort. Don’t feel pressured to look a certain way; it’s about what makes you feel good, rather than conforming to what someone else wants to see. Look after your intimate skin and hair like you would any other part of your body, investing in products such as SASS, Bush Oil or FemFresh to keep your bits tip top. Basically, look after yourself and don’t take advantage of the fact this small (but vitally important) part of your body will always behave as it should. If you don’t look after it now, it may come back to bite (itch, burn or sting) in the future.

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  1. ive shaved and waxed and had no issues! i guess my skin isnt sensitive as other people's :)
    Pam xo/ Pam Scalfi♥

  2. Aah how great would it be if it wasn't just the norm to be completely bald down there. I think there's such an expectation from young men and women and I don't understand it at all. It's a normal bodily thing so why should it be seen as such a stigma in young people if they aren't completely hairless?
    Pretty Mad Things .. x o

  3. This is a great topic to discuss! Great post bab x

    Millie x

  4. PMSL @ 'burnt badger'! Hilarious.

    I'll never forget the time I attempted to wax my own kitty. NEVER again! xx

  5. "Nobody wants a burnt badger" is my favourite sentence ever!

    Fab post xx

  6. Your post was very informative and useful. I alternate wax to razor and get sometimes irritations actually, I think due to hurry mostly. Baci, Valeria - Coco et La vie en rose BEAUTY LINK UP

  7. My bikini line is a complete pain in the ass! The only place I can really shave is under my arms, as anywhere else I suffer from dreadful shaving rash, including my bikini area. My method of choice is electric razor, but it's never really a close shave. Creams aren't bad but they usually smell awful and then there's the whole no going in the sun for 24 hours etc. I won't go into details as to exactly what 'look' I go for because TMI but to be honest I'd prefer if we just didn't have any! x

    Becky @ The Little Blog of Beauty

  8. Such a good feature... I can't get a furry Pamela Anderson out of my head now!

  9. Great post, informative yet HAIRlarious! <-- Ha! Hair Removal cream is for me, apart from the burning smell. Round about this time of year that I start to prune the rose bush, and this is so needed to get people talking, as how would we know if it normal or not?! Best to be open... Not like that! Anyways this is going a bit wrong, but excellent post topic :)


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